Tuesday, 3 November 2009

I LOVE presents

I've noticed that I don't talk much about work here at My (not so) Perfect Life. I'm not really sure why that is, maybe because I don't want to bore people or cross any lines... I'm not sure.

Anyway, I do have a job and I absolutely love it. I work in sales within a large company, it's a really competitive job, but also a really rewarding one. The company that I work for works really hard to make our work place fun and team spirit amongst the sales teams is really high. The team I work in is made up of some really amazing and kind people. I haven't been the most reliable employee over the last couple of months, with health dramas (an update on these down the track, I promise), labour scares and general pregnancy exhaustion.... but the team keeps on boosting me up, covering for me when they need to and generally being really supportive.

Last week at our monthly meeting/team bonding session they took things one step further in the awesome stakes and presented me with a basket overflowing with baby things. How nice are these people!? I was so overwhelmed and only just managed to hold back the tears (pregnancy hormones!).

The basket included all sorts of baby goodies, singlets, onesies, wipes, toys, baby blankets, beanies, face washers, bathtime essentials, socks and more! Seriously the best team in the world! It was so thoughtful of them and they managed to pull it off as a surprise, I had no idea that they were organising anything. Although that probably says more about how self absorbed I am!


In general my work has been really good as well. They have agreed to let me have 12 weeks unpaid maternity leave even though I am not technically eligible for it and am still within my six months probation. They have also let me cut my hours back to part-time for the last four weeks before I go on leave.

I do realise how lucky I am to have this kind of support in the workplace. Once I have had this baby and am ready to go back to work, I plan to do them proud!

T xx

Sunday, 1 November 2009

Halloween

For the first year ever we celebrated Halloween. We didn't really do much, but I did dress up my belly for work and we also had treats on hand for the trick or treaters.



My sister and I were planning on taking my niece trick or treating, but she got sick so we didn't go. Which did mean that I got to stay home and answer the door for the trick or treaters... Which I loved! They all looked so cute in their little costumes and they were all so incredibly well behaved. I had a huge bowl of chocolates and most of the kids only took one each. I would have definitely been taking handfuls myself!

I forgot to take a photo of the bowl before, but we still had some chocolate left afterwards so I took a photo anyway :)



Happy Halloween!

T xx

Tuesday, 27 October 2009

I'm a Winner!

The other week I entered a competition over at Swish and Swanky, which is the lovely Amanda's gorgeous interior design blog. And I won! Yay for me.

The competition was for a set of beautiful wall canvases from Gelati Art and I chose mine to be pale blue and white to work with the colours that I am using in the nursery.



I can't wait until they arrive so that I can include them in my decorating!

I also highly recommend that if you are into all things beautiful and love pouring over design blogs (like I do), that you go and check out Amanda's blog. You won't be sorry :)

T xx

Monday, 26 October 2009

Baby Shower Invitations

As promised, I thought I would show you the baby shower invitations that I made. They have all been posted out and the RSVP's are mostly all in.


The invites are based around the theme my Sister (Jen) and I are planning for the shower and also the theme that I am planning for the nursery. I have also been busy making things for the shower itself and Jen has been putting together the menu and entertainment side of things.

Hopefully we manage to pull it all off and I will have some great photos to post after the event!

T xx

A Baby Girl

One of my good friends Nat had a baby girl last night! When I found out I was so excited that I started to cry.

I haven't had a chance to visit her yet, but from all accounts she, the baby and her husband are all doing very well. The Big Man and I are heading back up to Hervey Bay midway through this week to return the ute that we borrowed, so hopefully (if Nat feels up to it) we can visit her and meet little Kate Ella then.

Although I should really have already come to terms with the fact that I am having a baby, every now and then something will happen that will really drive it home to me. Nat having her baby was one of those times. Nat called to tell me she was pregnant after she got through the first 12 weeks and it was only a week later that I found out that I was pregnant. All the way through our pregnancies we have been comparing stories and she has been letting me know what to expect next. So now that she has had her baby, I guess I am next!

T xx

Sunday, 25 October 2009

Hopefully the next one is a girl

This weekend I am up in Hervey Bay picking up some baby furniture from my sister. I love coming up to Hervey Bay, we always get to catch up with my sister and her family and the Big Man's family. Normally we make an effort to catch up with our friends, but we are on a tight schedule this weekend, so it is family time only.

One of my favourite things to do when I come up here is to do my nieces hair. She's not a huge fan of having her hairbrushed, but she is generally really good about it. She has beautiful blond hair that goes all the way down her back. Perfect for a clucky Mum-to-be to braid! Yesterday I did her hair in heidi platts and she looked so, so cute :)

It was a bit messy at the back, but only if you looked closely ;)

The furniture that we are taking back with us is a baby cot, a bassinet, a baby bath and change table and we're also picking up a whole lot of plants from the Big Man's parents, Christmas decorations from my sister and a few bits and pieces that I am borrowing for my baby shower.

I am so excited to get home and start piecing together the baby's room. I also ordered a few bits and pieces on etsy the other day so that I can start decorating the room....

Owl Decal from SurfaceFlik's Etsy Store

Small Owl Picture from LeeArthaus - Etsy

More pictures as it all comes together!

T xx

Monday, 19 October 2009

32 Weeks

Today marks the 32 week mark in my pregnancy! I thought I would mark the occasion with this questionnaire that I saw over at Not So Newlywed.

How far along:
32 Weeks, wow!

Total weight gain/loss:
I have gained 9 kilos so far, and with 8 weeks to go I think this is going to get a lot worse.

Maternity clothes:
I have some maternity clothes (which I love), but the best two things I have bought are a belly-belt kit (pants extenders) and two belly bands. Both from the maternity section at target. With these I have been able to keep on wearing most of my pre-pregnancy pants and skirts. Although I can't fit into my regular jeans anymore... I think this has more to do with the size of my bum though.....

Sleep:
Not too bad most nights. Lots of trips to the bathroom each night and aching hips are the two major sleep problems that I am experiencing at the moment.

Best moment this week:
Realising that the baby could be arriving anytime in the next 6 to 10 weeks :)

Movement:
I have been able to feel him move since about 16 weeks, the Big Man has been able to feel him since about 23 weeks. I have been able to see him move since 27 weeks. This last week the amount of movement that I have been feeling is a lot less, I think this is because he is running out of space and is a bit crowded.

Food cravings:
Basically if I hear about a certain food I start craving it. This morning a twitterer that I follow tweeted that he dreamed about Orange Sherbet Sandwiches.... yep, now I'm craving orange sherbet (my mouth is watering as I type). Another twitterer that I follow has a plate of nachos as his picture and everytime he tweets I crave nachos. Unfortunately the Big Man has no interest in going out and buying me food at odd hours of the day, so most of the time my cravings go unfulfilled.

Gender:
Boy!!

Labor Signs:
Lots of braxton-hicks contractions. These combined with nausea, back pain and diarrea (sorry if TMI) have had me stressed out and up at the hospital.

Belly Button in or out:
Still in, looks like its probably staying in.

What I miss:
Soft cheese, coffee, caffeine of any description, champagne and being able to see my toes

What I am looking forward to:
My baby showers in a few weeks and meeting the little guy :)

Weekly Wisdom: Sleep in at every opportunity and make the most of your husband. Last night I called the Big Man out from his office because I wanted him to bring Cooper to me so that I could hug him. Cooper was only on the other end of the couch, but I was so comfy that I didn't want to move. The Big Man wasn't overly impressed, but brought me Cooper anyway because he loves me :)

Milestones:
Starting my third trimester was a big one, going part-time at work last week was another one. I think the next big one will be the start of my maternity leave.

I am still absolutely loving being pregnant and smile everytime I see my belly in the mirror and I'm starting to really look forward to meeting my little baby boy.

At out regular check up last week, our obstetrician was away so we met with the midwife. She had a good feel of my belly and decided that he was the size of a 34 week baby (and that was almost a week ago!). I don't know if this means that he is going to come early of if it means that I am going to push out a big baby. I guess we just have to wait and see...

T xx